2022.01.16 19:20 duperando Does my ex sound like a narcissist?
Keep in mind that to me, this stuff seems subtle and I feel like I’m crazy for seeing all this stuff as narcissistic because nobody else seemed to think so. It was also a pretty short relationship that occurred last year. I’ve had two therapists that said he sounds like he is potentially narcissistic or, at the very least, manipulative and controlling.
The first thing that I noticed after the breakup was that during the relationship, he always liked to make me uncomfortable in front of other people. Like, he knew I was shy about more sexual topics and he’d say purposefully sexual things while we were with other people to make me embarrassed. He also had a sadistic streak with his friends and would say and do frankly mean stuff to them. He sometimes would subtly make fun of me for being sensitive or forgetful. We both were in the same hobby group and often when I was trying to focus I swear he’d say embarrassing things to make me lose focus and mess up. He seemed obsessed with me and wanted to spend time with me constantly and now I look back and wonder if it was love bombing. He also seemed to really want me to be into the same things he was. Like, it seemed like he wanted me to fit into this role in his life. Like, he had all these grandiose plans of traveling, and it seemed like he just wanted me to go along with whatever he planned, and he never really seemed to listen to what I wanted in life. He was very controlled in his own life. He talked about how if he wanted something, he would work hard for it and always get what he wanted.
He also treated me like I was very naive and like he was the wise one who knew about life and that he had so much to teach me. I did feel like he had pretty low empathy in general and it felt like he never really listened to what I truly thought. He seemed to just project onto me the perfect girlfriend role. When we broke up due to some deal breakers (he never wanted to be married or have kids or have anything to do with my faith), he told me that I would have a very hard time in my next relationship due to my standards. It hurt a lot too because he moved on very fast and purposely brought his new girlfriend around our hobby spot. It made me feel super replaceable. Which makes me wonder if he really was just looking for a girl to fit that perfect role.
Now HERE is where stuff is creepy. He and I are in our 30s. He is mid 30s. When we initially broke up, he spent a lot of time with a much younger girl in our hobby group (literally 20 years old) but he swore it was platonic even though we knew she had a crush on him. I noticed that he would be flirty around her and warned him that he was making her get ideas that he liked her and he just said that it was her fault if she read into his flirtation. But like literally this guy was closer in age to her mom than her. THEN I found out recently of some even creepier stuff. So there is a girl who I have kind of of become an older sister figure to that is also in our hobby group who actually used to work at the place of our hobby. She is only 19 and she told me that like 2 years ago (when she was 17 and he was still mid 30s) that when she was working, my ex would talk to her all the time and do the hobby one on one with her and would often stay until closing just talking to her as she closed alone. She said he would remember basically everything she said (like he did with me). She didn’t know if he was just like that with everyone and I told her that, no, he tended to keep to hims leg unless he wanted to specifically interact with someone, usually a girl. When I told her that, she got very creeped out. We both kind of felt like that was grooming behavior.
Anyways, I do feel like a dodged a huge bullet but I guess I just feel confused? Like maybe he thought he was innocent interacting that way with much younger girls? He did often say he was bad with personal relationships.
Let me know your thoughts. I just want to feel like I’m not crazy. Our mutual friends still invite him to group things and I just can’t handle being around him and his ex so I always decline the invites if I know he’ll be there. Like our friend group doesn’t see anything wrong with his behavior (thoit’s go I haven’t told anyone about the 17 year old’s experience because I want to respect her privacy.
My one therapist was basically convinced that he had abusive tendencies. But I struggle to know if it was that or just him being socially inept. I absolutely think he was inappropriate but I never really knew how to categorize his behavior.
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2022.01.16 19:20 Minute_Cold_6699 "Maximum Pets Pls!" (Beastmasters need more summons)
BM Hunter Remap
Little About Me: I've been playing since beta before Hunter's were in the game, I fell in love with the class starting in WOTLK because of all of the work that was done to make BM hunters unique. Since then, I've witnessed the fall and the complete disregard for this class/spec which is really sad, when you design a game, any game you have to account for what you're taking away otherwise you break the class/spec uniqueness. I'm hoping I'm not the only one who's noticed this. Fixing this spec would go a long way to restoring your player base numbers to a larger degree. The talents are terrible on this class, it's time for a restoration to it's former glory before the next expansion, and then when the next expansion hits, I'd suggest leaving this spec alone once it's completely restored so that this mistake won't be made in future patches! Thank you!
For funding concerns look no further than your next expansion, you would do well to make these changes not for me but in order to attract back the people who left in the exodus to that other MMORPG because a large number of your player base are hunter players who left because of the lack of concern for the hunter class.
You can add these to the reputation, you can put them in as glyphs, you can make them pet skills, but please do something to bring this class back around to it's former glory! It's well beyond time!
PVE abilities you should restore on BM Hunters: Improved Revive Pet (WOTLK) Improved Mend Pet (WOTLK, include cleanse with this spell again please) Spirit Bond (WOTLK, causes pet to regenerate 2% of it's maximum hitpoints every 10 seconds) Serpent's Swiftness (WOTLK, make it a skill so that when you use Bestial Wrath your main pet casts this)
Traits that should be Class Spec abilities: Dire Beast (passive, occurs with Kill Command) Stampede (deserves to be a class spec ability for BM Hunters replacing Exotic Pets which are really just part of the spec, think about it, if Demonology Spect Warlocks were forced to pick this for their Felhounds, not the same is it.)
Traits/Glyphs I'd like to see added: Focusing all on pets as a BM should be just as much fun as focusing all on demons on Warlock Demonologists. They should be able to summon animals with every skill they have similarly to Warlocks. When casting different shots each shot should be given a specific type of creature BM hunters can summon or some of their shots should be replaced with summon skills that are BeastMaster specific because the other specs do not need Dire Beast or Stampede or even Animal Companion.
Worthless Traits: 9.2 please replace One with the Pack Chimaera Shot Trailblazer (revert it back to a stance and replace it with one of the abilities above.) Murder of Crows (deserves to be a glyph on another skill so that casting that skill like Beastial Wrath will cause Murder of Crows.) Bloodshed (should be a beast ability that exists only on Exotic Pets that way it will be always available and the pet can cast it)
Note: This is not a post on damage this is a post on making overall improvements including but not limited to making certain talents class/spec abilities in order to bring back the prestige of the BeastMaster Hunter Spec. Do not reply with "hunters are fine" or "hunters don't need anything" because you'll be ignored. Ty!
I can also state that the Legion version of Demonologist Warlocks worked way better than the current version automatic summons is the way to go for pet classes! Immunity to Damage for pets in PVE is THE way to go!)
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